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Looking after a person living with memory loss can be extremely challenging. We are here to help you and your loved one through that journey.

If you are struggling with how to look after a loved one who has dementia, we can help you navigate the journey so that both you and your relative or friend, and your wider network benefit from expert advice and first-class care.

We understand the challenges, the emotions and feelings that come with the discovery of what seems like someone’s personality disappearing. But people with dementia are often able, with the right help at the right time, to live fulfilling lives in the right environment. While your relationship with them will inevitably change, it need not be a wholly negative experience for everyone.

1. Having the conversation about care

There are few discussion subjects within a family that are as difficult to initiate as the delicate subject of care with an elderly relative, even more so if there is a suspicion of early-onset dementia.

We understand how difficult this can be and the extra questions it brings up as a result. There is no substitute for speaking with a professional before embarking on this journey and there are many resources to hand to assist you.

Rest assured, you are not the only person who finds this difficult, many people do every day, across the UK. Here are some pointers to help you guide the conversation and avoid making a difficult situation harder for you or your loved one.

Read our three tips on having better conversations about care with a loved one.

2. Getting an assessment of the stage of Dementia

Dementia is how we describe a collection of symptoms that occur and prevent the brain from functioning properly, it is not a disease in its own right. Alzheimer’s Disease is the most commonly known but there are more.

Understanding what dementia is and how it progresses is key to us being able to help people. It is important to understand which home will suit your loved one the best.

There are different stages of dementia, and with those come different behaviours, some of which can be challenging. Spotting the early signs is a big part of being able to make sure that people receive the best care in the most appropriate environment. Ahead of every admission, we will carry out a thorough assessment beforehand, so that you can be as informed as possible and make the best decisions.

Talk to us about a Dementia Assessment

Choosing a care home for someone with Dementia

3. Listen to other’s experiences

It’s important to get an idea from other families about their feelings or understandings about the level of care their loved one is receiving.

Using can be an invaluable resource, simply head to their website and read the reviews from family members, friends of residents.

Here’s just one example from a Daughter of one of our residents:

“Placing one of your parents into a residential care home is never going to be easy and this, coupled with the current coronavirus situation, made this a really difficult decision for us to be confronted with. The staff at Shinfield have been absolutely marvellous at making our father feel welcome and quickly settled, in spite of these difficult times. Dad is an Alzheimer's patient, and it's a real comfort to know that he is on a dedicated floor where staff can look after him with his special needs in mind. Fortunately, he has had both his covid vaccines before arriving at Shinfield and now that quarantine is over, he can participate in all the activities offered, which he is loving. As we cannot visit Dad, communication is absolutely vital for us, and this is available 24-hours a day. A-Zoom tour of the home showed us just how beautiful and comfortable the place is, and we are so happy to know Dad is being taken care of in such a lovely setting. Thank you so much for everything.”

Read other reviews from for our home.

Contact Us

To find out more about how making the decision to help a loved one with dementia is so important, contact us today on 01189 145 481 or email Jodie Whatmore on

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